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Chidinma Adetshina’s journey to being crowned Miss Universe Africa & Oceania 2024 and placing as the first runner-up in the global Miss Universe competition is a story of resilience, identity, and inspiration. Representing Nigeria with pride, her story is packed with lessons for aspiring leaders and dreamers. 1. Embrace Your Identity Chidinma, born in South Africa to Nigerian parents, experienced backlash during her run in South Africa’s pageants due to her dual identity. Rather than being discouraged, she proudly represented Nigeria at Miss Universe when the opportunity presented itself, showcasing the richness of her heritage. Lesson: Celebrate your identity and let it empower you, even in the face of adversity​ 2. Resilience Is a Superpower Facing xenophobic attacks and criticism, Chidinma withdrew from South Africa’s competition. Three months later, she emerged as Miss Universe Africa & Oceania- representing Nigeria, thus becoming the first African to achieve this title at...

Leadership is not about a title—it's about influence, innovation, and impact. As the world increasingly embraces diversity, aspiring female leaders have the opportunity to shape a brighter future. However, success requires more than ambition; it demands the cultivation of essential skills. Here are the top skills aspiring female leaders should focus on and practical steps to develop them. 1. Emotional Intelligence (EQ) Great leaders are empathetic, self-aware, and skilled at navigating relationships. EQ allows you to inspire and motivate teams while managing conflicts constructively. How to cultivate it: Practice active listening in conversations. Reflect daily on how your emotions influence your decisions. Seek feedback from trusted peers to identify blind spots. 2. Strategic Thinking Leadership demands the ability to see the big picture while managing the details. Strategic thinking helps you set clear goals and align your efforts to achieve them. How to cultivate it: Regularly r...

*Practical Financial Management Lessons with Goodness Iruoma In October, we held our meet session in the form of a discussion connect —our very first session of its kind— and it turned out to be highly enlightening and impactful. The session was led by our amazing facilitator, Goodness Iruoma, founder of Oma books and a proud member of the SkillHer community who shared practical and actionable insights on financial management, leaving participants inspired and empowered. The event, held at LMP Space, Favos Building, Bodija, Ibadan, started at 3:00 PM. It commenced with an interesting introductory session to ease everyone into the empowering discussion of the day. Goodness structured her talk around the 3 Ms of Money: Make, Manage, and Multiply, offering valuable lessons that were both relatable and transformative. Make She outlined various ways to earn money while highlighting the importance of diversifying income streams. This could include not limited to: - Pursuing the traditional ...

Even as Kamala Harris’s 2024 presidential bid may not have secured the victory, her journey in politics remains one of profound inspiration. Harris has broken numerous barriers and set historic milestones, especially as the first female, Black, and South Asian Vice President of the United States. Her enduring courage and commitment to public service exemplify a path of resilience and leadership, qualities that SkillHer seeks to nurture in young women today. A Trailblazing Career that Inspires Kamala Harris’s journey is filled with firsts: the first Black woman to serve as California's Attorney General, the second Black woman elected to the U.S. Senate, and the first female Vice President of the United States. Each role she took on required grit, resilience, and an unwavering commitment to justice. Her career proves that young women can break into traditionally male-dominated fields, rise to top leadership roles, and drive change at every level. Harris’s story demonstrates that whil...